Purpose, Power, and Permission

  • Living Beyond Trauma: What Do I Do With This? (Part I)

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    Sha-shonda

    Some say that we are the products of our experiences.  They believe that who we become is a direct reflection of what we have gone through. So, what do you do when your experiences have all but killed you? Who do you become when the images of your past are…

  • You Are Caught

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    Sha-shonda

    It has been way too long since I have been here, so forgive me. I awoke from a dream this morning with a strong message that I knew I had to share.  In the dream, I encountered a woman who was very angry.  She had a bad attitude, she was…

  • The Drought Is Over

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    Sha-shonda

    Have you ever experienced a drought? No, I am not speaking of a physical drought, but a spiritual and/or emotional drought.  When one is in the midst of a drought, he/she is experiencing a lack or a deficiency.  There is a need or desire, recognized or unrecognized, that goes unsatisfied. …

  • While You’re Waiting

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    Sha-shonda

    On your mark. Get set. Ready… There are moments in life when it feels like nothing significant is happening.  It seems as if you are the hamster on the wheel.  You are using a lot of energy, but you aren’t getting anywhere.  It is during these lulls that many people…

  • Continue

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    Sha-shonda

    Many people invest a lot of time, effort, and even money to discover their purpose.  And once they discover their purpose (or come close), they find themselves stuck, confused, or in a holding pattern.   Some find themselves more confused than before.  So, what do I do? The answer might seem…

  • Write Your Own Story

    Write Your Own Story

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    Sha-shonda

    In the introduction or orientation to most of my literature courses, I emphasize the role of narrative (or story) in our lives.  I stress that we exist within narratives.  Stories influence our thoughts, shape our beliefs, and guide our actions. Think about it.  What is history if not a collection…

  • Build Your Life

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    Sha-shonda

    Like many, I awoke to this day determined to forge a new future and reasonably so. Today is the day when countless people will set new goals and make resolutions, which is great.  However, in order to do so, many people begin by expressing dissatisfaction with themselves and with others. …

  • The Birth of Hope

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    Sha-shonda

    Today is December 25, 2012, and countless people are celebrating in many different ways and for many different reasons.  Some are singing carols and opening much-anticipated gifts while others are preparing for festive dinners with family and friends. Old Christmas traditions are being upheld and new ones are being created.…

  • Recovering from Being Dropped

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    Sha-shonda

    Not everyone begins his/her journey with the same credentials and qualifications, gifts and skills, or physical and economic advantages.  Wherever you start from and whatever you start with, you must recognize that it is enough to get you to the place you are destined to be. Yes, it does seem…

  • Getting Back To My Former Glory: The Process of Restoration

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    Sha-shonda

    Sometimes, you get to a place in life that you had not intended to go.  Somehow, somewhere along your journey, you turned left when you should’ve turned right.  Perhaps, you stopped when you were supposed to go.  And just maybe, you didn’t pay close enough attention to the directions in…