Self-esteem and Purpose

There is a significant and most relevant tie between self-esteem and purpose.  Living without the knowledge of purpose can make a person feel empty and worthless.  Thoughts along the lines of, “it doesn’t matter whether I live or die,” or “I’ll never be good enough anyway,” or “I don’t matter; I can’t make a difference,” invades our psyche and attacts our self esteem — how we value ourselves.  Only once, in the Old Testament, a Hebrew term is used to define the concept of no purpose.  “For the Egyptians shall help in vain, and to no purpose:  therefore have I cried concerning this, Their strength is to sit still” (Isaiah 30.7).  Purpose in this passage is derived from the Hebrew word, ruyq, which means vanity; emptiness; or a worthless thing.  This notion of ruyq is what a person concedes to when he believes he has no purpose, and accepting and internalizing this concept of ruyq produces ill feelings towards one’s self.  Note, however, that I said this term is used only once.  Why only once?  It is used only once because everything is created on purpose with purpose.  That means you too!  So, there is no need to dwell on ruyq, because what you have going on is something altogether different, and understanding purpose will help to overcome those feelings of insignificance and worthlessness.

If you haven’t already started your journey towards discovering your purpose, today is a good day!

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3 responses to “Self-esteem and Purpose”

  1. Cyndi Avatar
    Cyndi

    I still at this time is not sure what my purpose is in life. I try different things but it’s not right meaning whatever I try don’t turn our right so I just keep trying things over and over again.

    1. Dr. Sha-shonda Porter Avatar

      Please know that there are many people, just like you, who are trying to find their purpose. The great thing about you is that you keep trying!

      Purpose is the essence of who you are, and the things that you do are the outward expressions of your purpose. For example, maybe your purpose is “to organize.” So, you naturally organize things or pull things together. You perform your purpose when you organize family events, birthday parties at work, church events, etc. Your essence, therefore your purpose, is that of “Organizer.” Many people fail to realize that the things they do well may very well be an indication of their purpose. And sometimes, people overlook their purpose because they do it so naturally and so easily. Your purpose fits you like a well-worn glove. It is not difficult because you always tend to do it no matter what role (i.e. mother, friend, employee, etc.) you’re performing at the time. As you search for your purpose, ask yourself, “What do I do naturally?”

      Let’s keep talking, and you stay on that path to discovery! If you have time, you should definitely join us on the teleconference, Purpose, Power, and Permission: “Positioning Yourself…” on December 4-6, 2012. http://www.anymeeting.com/PIID=E950D884894930

  2. Elliot Rotering Avatar
    Elliot Rotering

    Low self-esteem is a negative evaluation of oneself. This type of evaluation usually occurs when some circumstance we encounter in our life touches on our sensitivities. We personalize the incident and experience physical, emotional, and cognitive arousal. This is so alarming and confusing that we respond by acting in a self-defeating or self-destructive manner. `

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